What Matters? Finding Your Voice in Today’s World

In today’s world there is a lot to talk about and get worked up about! From international events to domestic challenges, social media discussions on masculinity and pervasive issues like sexism and racism, it so easy to get lost in all the noise, where does one even begin?

I have never been one to voice my opinions loudly on social media, while I support those who share views aligned with mine, I often hold back from expressing my own. This is because I feel that online debates can get messy, can lack nuance and can quickly delve into hostility. I prefer to have these conversations in forums where different voices and points of views can be held and discussed in more depth. I am also conscious of the negative impact that online debates can have on professional relationships, another reason I have held back, with that said I am clear about my boundaries and who I will and won’t work with, and for me that has been enough, until now.

The blatant attacks on initiatives promoting equity and inclusion, alongside the normalisation of discriminating and oppressive systems has become too much for me to bear.

With everything that’s going on you may be wondering how to get your voice heard.  We are not all ‘activists’ but many of us want to make a difference in our own way. How you choose to do this is up to you, but I urge you to find your voice! In a world where opinions often feel binary, you’re either a ‘red’ or a ‘blue’, let’s not forget how important it is to have conversations and learn from each other. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying we need to debate the existence of obvious issues like racism or sexism under the banner of ‘free speech’, what I am saying is, let’s focus on having better conversations that respect different perspectives and lived experiences.

How can you start?

Be courageous


Speaking up takes bravery. Choose where you want your voice to be heard and, in that space, stand up for what you believe in, even when it feels uncomfortable. Remember, your voice can inspire others to find theirs.

Don’t be afraid of getting things wrong


Embrace the possibility of making mistakes, we can sometimes let the fear of getting things wrong silence us. It’s okay to stumble as you navigate complex topics. Keep an open mind and a growth mindset. And be sure to share what you learn with others.

Open your ears, mind, and heart


Listening is as important as speaking. Approach conversations with an open heart and a willingness to learn from others, especially those with different experiences than your own. All our experiences are valid and have brought us to where we are. With openness and learning we can be architects of where we go next and how we show up.

Suspend judgement

We can be our own harshest critics, extend grace to others to yourself, by creating a space where everyone feels safe to express themselves understanding and respect grows.

Find conversation in community


Engage with others around you. Be brave and look beyond your immediate social circles. Sharing experiences with those from different backgrounds invariably fosters learning and can lead to meaningful dialogue.

I work with my clients to amplify their voices in work and in life. I encourage you to amplify your voice in the wider world, stand up for what you believe, the ripple effect of our collective voices is what will encourage inclusive conversations and a better world.